How do we plan goodbye moments if the person is very tired?
If the person is very tired, it helps to think in short, manageable moments rather than long visits or detailed plans. A goodbye ritual may only last a few minutes, and that is absolutely fine. You could play one favourite song, read a short letter, offer a quiet hand massage, or invite one person at a time to sit with them. Watch for signs of fatigue, such as closing eyes, restlessness, or less focus, and be prepared to pause. Keep the room calm, reduce background noise, and make sure they are physically comfortable first. Sometimes simply being present in silence is the most meaningful choice. These moments do not need many words to hold love and importance.