What if I feel embarrassed about going out with a colostomy?
Feeling embarrassed is very common, especially in the early weeks or months after surgery, but it does not mean you have to stop going out. Confidence often returns gradually with positive experiences, practical preparation, and the right support. It may help to start with people and places where you already feel safe. You do not have to explain your situation to everyone if you do not want to. Some people feel better after talking through their worries with a loved one or carer first. Over time, many find that the fear of what might happen becomes much bigger than what actually happens when they go out.