What if my elderly loved one refuses help?

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It’s common for older adults to feel anxious or defensive about accepting care, especially if they link it with losing independence. Start with gentle conversations focused on what they find difficult or tiring, rather than insisting on “care”. Suggest trying a small amount of help, perhaps framed as support for you rather than them: “It would really reassure me if someone could pop in when I’m at work.” Meeting a carer for an informal visit before care begins can also help. We’re used to working sensitively with people who are unsure, building trust gradually and always respecting their choices and rights.

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