--- title: What If My Loved One Feels Embarrassed About Needing A Catheter | Homecare Services & Domiciliary Care canonical: https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-if-my-loved-one-feels-embarrassed-about-needing-a-catheter last updated: 2026-03-21 20:59:56 GMT version: 1 --- # What if my loved one feels embarrassed about needing a catheter? Feeling embarrassed is completely understandable, especially when continence changes happen suddenly or at a younger age. It can help to acknowledge those feelings gently, without rushing to “cheer up” the person. Using everyday language, keeping conversations respectful and normalising the catheter as just another medical aid, like glasses or a walking stick, can reduce shame over time. Our carers are used to supporting people through these emotions, offering quiet reassurance and normal conversation during care tasks. 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