--- title: What If My Loved One Feels Embarrassed About Their Colostomy | Homecare Services & Domiciliary Care canonical: https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-if-my-loved-one-feels-embarrassed-about-their-colostomy last updated: 2026-03-21 21:21:52 GMT version: 1 --- # What if my loved one feels embarrassed about their colostomy? Feeling embarrassed, angry, or sad about a colostomy is completely normal. It’s a big change to body image and can affect confidence, intimacy, and social life. The key is to move at your loved one’s pace. Offer reassurance, avoid jokes about the stoma, and respect their preferences about who is involved in care. Some families ask us to handle intimate tasks so relatives can remain in a more familiar role. We also encourage small confidence boosters, such as choosing comfortable, flattering clothing and planning short, positive outings, helping the person see that life can still feel fulfilling. ### Related FAQs - [What Is A Colostomy And Why Might Someone Need One?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-is-a-colostomy-and-why-might-someone-need-one) - [Can Colostomy Care Be Safely Managed At Home?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-colostomy-care-be-safely-managed-at-home) - [How Often Should A Colostomy Bag Be Emptied Or Changed?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-often-should-a-colostomy-bag-be-emptied-or-changed) - [What Are The Signs Of Infection Or Complications Around A Stoma?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-are-the-signs-of-infection-or-complications-around-a-stoma) - [Can Someone With A Colostomy Shower Or Bathe Normally?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-someone-with-a-colostomy-shower-or-bathe-normally) - [How Can Diet Affect Colostomy Output?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-can-diet-affect-colostomy-output) - [Is It Possible To Sleep Comfortably With A Colostomy Bag?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/is-it-possible-to-sleep-comfortably-with-a-colostomy-bag) - [Can Someone With A Colostomy Still Go On Holiday Or Days Out?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-someone-with-a-colostomy-still-go-on-holiday-or-days-out) - [How Can Home Carers Help With Dignity During Colostomy Care?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-can-home-carers-help-with-dignity-during-colostomy-care) - [What If My Loved One Also Has Dementia Or Memory Problems?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-if-my-loved-one-also-has-dementia-or-memory-problems) - [Can Home Care Include Help With Other Personal Tasks As Well?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-home-care-include-help-with-other-personal-tasks-as-well) - [How Is Home Colostomy Care Funded?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-is-home-colostomy-care-funded) - [What Happens If There Is A Leak While We Are Out Or At Home?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-happens-if-there-is-a-leak-while-we-are-out-or-at-home) - [Can Someone With A Colostomy Live Independently If They Live Alone?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-someone-with-a-colostomy-live-independently-if-they-live-alone) - [How Do I Know If Home Care For Colostomy Support Is Right For Us?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-do-i-know-if-home-care-for-colostomy-support-is-right-for-us) - [What If Our Needs Change Over Time?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/what-if-our-needs-change-over-time) - [Is Colostomy Care Painful?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/is-colostomy-care-painful) - [Can I Stay At Home After Colostomy Surgery Instead Of Going Into A Care Home?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-i-stay-at-home-after-colostomy-surgery-instead-of-going-into-a-care-home) - [Can Home Carers Help With Other Health Conditions As Well As Colostomy Care?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/can-home-carers-help-with-other-health-conditions-as-well-as-colostomy-care) - [Is Overnight Support Available For People With A New Colostomy?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/is-overnight-support-available-for-people-with-a-new-colostomy) - [How Do I Know If Home Colostomy Care Is Affordable For Us?](https://www.thegoodplace.care/search/how-do-i-know-if-home-colostomy-care-is-affordable-for-us) ### You Might Find These Helpful ## [Colostomy Care](https://www.thegoodplace.care/care-in-your-own-home/condition-led-care/colostomy-care) [Care for Medical Conditions](https://www.thegoodplace.care/tag/Care-for-Medical-Conditions) [Colostomy care at home can feel manageable and dignified with the right support around you. 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