How can I discuss personal care without upsetting my parent?
This can feel sensitive, so speak with dignity and respect at the centre of the conversation. Avoid blunt language or comments that sound like criticism. Instead of focusing on what your parent cannot do, explain that support with washing, dressing, or getting ready can help conserve energy and reduce the risk of slips or strain. It may help to mention that many people accept this kind of support simply because it makes mornings easier and more comfortable. Reassure them that help with intimate routines can be discreet and handled professionally. Starting with one part of the routine, such as help after a shower or assistance getting dressed, may feel more manageable than discussing every aspect at once.