Is it better to suggest companionship at home before more hands-on care?

Often, yes. If your parent feels wary of “care,” starting with companionship can be a gentle and positive first step. A regular visitor for conversation, a cup of tea, a short walk, or help getting out to appointments can feel more like social support than formal care. This can build trust and show your parent that having someone around does not mean losing control of the household. For some families, companionship is enough for a while. For others, it becomes a bridge to accepting practical help later with meals, housework, or personal routines. Starting where your parent feels most comfortable usually creates less resistance and a better long-term outcome.